BCM114 online presence 2

My da creation process is very difficult, because it is basically text content, which is difficult to interest everyone. This is only one aspect. More difficulties are in content creation. Most of the contents I discuss are interpersonal relationships, communication in people’s lives, how people should communicate and solve problems in life, family, friends, lovers, teachers, classmates and so on.Man is a social creature, and human communication is necessary and inevitable. In the process of communicating with people, even if we pay great attention, we will inevitably say wrong words and do wrong things. Sometimes these mistakes may cause great mental or material damage to others. At this time, you must have the courage to bear your own mistakes. In this way, you can not only show that you are a qualified and responsible person, but also get the understanding of the other party more easily. If you evade responsibility and try every means to justify your mistakes, it will only make you more stupid and unreasonable,
In fact, people live in the world, nine times out of ten, who can do everything well. Life will never be perfect, and often regret is the eternal beauty. In Buddhism, the world is called “whirling world”, which means a world that can tolerate many shortcomings. The world has defects. If there are no defects, it can not be called the human world. The human world is accumulated by defects. Often imperfection is perfect, and too perfection becomes defect. Sometimes, your goal is a little different from the reality. If you don’t let go of your perfect ideal, you will be deeply trapped in endless troubles and entanglement, which makes you often depressed. On the contrary, finding a balance between perfection and imperfection will make your life much easier and happier. Sometimes people are blinded by the pressure to pursue perfection in life or work. I think that only doing the “best” can make me happier. In fact, sometimes your defects will be a considerable wealth of life. Therefore, there is no need to worry about your defects and make your life colorful,
In communication with people, smile is a bridge to build a good interpersonal relationship and a lubricant to adjust various contradictions. Smile is like sunshine. It can bring warmth to others and make them have a good impression of generosity, humility and approachability. Smile is a kind of tolerance and acceptance. It makes people connect with each other. A smile is better than a thousand words. For each of us Personally, a smile is easy, but it can illuminate all those who see it. When you give a smile every time, the light of the smile will also shine back on your face and bring you convenience, happiness and good memories.
There are always three or two confidants and some friends in the world. And friends are often the best objects for us to talk about. We can get comfort from our friends when we are sad, and share with them when we are happy. Even the secrets in our hearts can be taken out to talk to each other, but friends don’t talk about everything, even if the relationship between you is so close. Everyone should It has its own privacy of life, so the way of getting along with friends is also artistic. No matter between lovers or close friends, they can’t be too close, otherwise they will put pressure on each other invisibly and keep an appropriate distance to make the friendship last forever.
In interpersonal communication, we should learn to change and improve ourselves, let ourselves keep a low profile, learn self-criticism, learn to respect and treat each other politely when communicating with others, avoid unnecessary arguments, and learn sincere praise. Everyone’s different ideas will make us disagree about problems. Debate is the worst choice. We need to understand each other and look at problems from different angles. Kind and tactful suggestions, so that we can solve problems quickly and effectively.